Baldur’s Gate 3 romance guide: All relationship options & how to romance them

Jessica Filby
Baldur's Gate 3 romance cut scene

Romance plays a significant role in the immersive world of Baldur’s Gate 3, offering various options for character relationships. If you want to find love in Faerûn, this guide details all the possible romantic partners in the game.

The richness of Baldur’s Gate 3, crafted by Larian Studios, extends beyond its epic narrative and exploration. It includes many romantic options, allowing players to form deep connections and explore various relationship paths in the mystical land of Faerûn.

Players can create their own characters and specify their classes and subclasses, race, and abilities, as well as pursue a handful of romance options throughout the game with a select number of characters.

Not everyone you meet on your journey will be a potential partner, however, so if you’re wondering exactly who you can romance in the game, we’ve got you covered with all the information you need.

Without further ado, here are all the romance options in Baldur’s Gate 3.

Can you romance companions in Baldur’s Gate 3?

Karlach Baldur's Gate 3

Many players will be thrilled to find out that you can romance any of your companions in Baldur’s Gate 3.

To make this succinct and clear for you, we’ve provided a list of all the romanceable characters in Baldur’s Gate 3:

  • Astarion
  • Shadowheart
  • Gale
  • Lae’zel
  • Wyll
  • Karlach
  • Minthara
  • Halsin

How to romance in Baldur’s Gate 3

To romance your companions in Baldur’s Gate 3, you’ll need to develop a positive relationship with the character you want to be your lover.

To do this, you’ll want to look out for certain dialogue options or choices that will reflect kindly on the companion’s morals, or make them look good.

It’ll be a lot of learning as you go, but we recommend choosing your companion before fully beginning the game, so you can prepare for scenarios and focus on falling in love. Once in the game, head to the character sheet and look at the companions’ stats. In there, it’ll tell you all about their approval of you so you can adjust as you play.

In order to raise approval, you’ll have to follow the companions’ personal quests. Look out for ‘!’ markers, given that they indicate that your companion has something to say to you. Also, agreeing with their plans can help develop a relationship as well as camping often.

While choosing who you want to love, take a look at some of our other handy guides and content:

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Based in Cumbria, England, Jessica is a Senior Games Writer who joined Dexerto after stints at Game Rant and The Gamer. You can find her covering everything from Minecraft, CoD, Disney Dreamlight Valley, Pokemon Go and more. You can contact Jessica at jessica.filby@dexerto.com