Sweet Anita shares incredible words of wisdom about relationships - Dexerto

Sweet Anita shares incredible words of wisdom about relationships

Published: 12/Nov/2019 23:41 Updated: 13/Nov/2019 9:52

by Matt Porter


For many, watching Twitch streamers is an opportunity to forget about what’s going on in their own lives, but sometimes taking your issues to the creators you like proves to be incredibly rewarding, as Sweet Anita showed with some amazing advice about relationships.

One of the things that makes Twitch different from any other platform is the ability to have a live connection with your favorite stars, who can chat and react to you in real-time. 

This often leads viewers to pose questions to streamers, and sometimes even ask for advice, as one such viewer did with Anita, who opened up about how important every relationship is, and how holding on to happy memories is important even if your time together wasn’t always great.

Twitch: Sweet_AnitaAnita had some wonderful advice regarding breakups for her audience.

While discussing breakups with her chat, Anita shared some incredible words of wisdom with her chat, telling her audience: “I’ve met a lot of people who I’ve loved and had to leave because they were cruel or unkind, and I’m still grateful for every experience I had with them.”

“I’m really, really careful to remember the positive parts because humans distort their memories. Your memories will distort to justify your current feelings, and so you will rewrite whole chapters of your history to justify your sense of self.”

“It’s a mechanism that all humans do,” she explained to her viewers. “The thing is, I spent years with these people and I made happy memories, and if I let my current feelings about them now taint those memories, I lose six, seven years of my life.”

Twitch can often be a place for laughs and funny moments, but sometimes it does provide viewers with incredible advice and life lessons that they can take forward.

Of course, this isn’t the first time Anita has given her audience some pearls of wisdom, previously sharing how she deals with grief in an amazing moment back in July.


JoJo Siwa asks fans to stop sending hate to ex-boyfriend Mark Bontempo

Published: 18/Nov/2020 0:43

by Virginia Glaze


YouTube star and former Dance Moms contestant JoJo Siwa has finally broken the news of her breakup with ex-boyfriend Mark Bontempo — but it seems like some fans aren’t taking their split very well.

JoJo Siwa’s love life is often quite a mystery; after sort-of confirming rumors surrounding herself and longtime friend Elliot Brown in March, the YouTuber seemed to break off their relationship and moved on to fellow influencer Mark Bontempo in August, introducing their romance with a humorous TikTok.

Siwa appeared to be stoked about dating Mark, gushing to ET that “He’s amazing and I couldn’t have imagined anyone better.”

“Honestly he’s a dream,” she said of their relationship. “Really, truly unreal and I’m so happy.”

@itsjojosiwaMeet Mark:) @mark.bontempo♬ Famous (I’m the One) – Mozzy & IAMSU!

However, it seems that those happy days have come and gone, according to JoJo’s comment on an Instagram page on November 17.

As told by the star herself, she and Bontempo have decided to part ways. Luckily, there doesn’t seem to be any drama behind their split, with Siwa confirming that they simply weren’t right for each other at this moment.

That’s not the most intriguing thing about the situation, though; the YouTuber also begged her fans to stop sending hate to her ex on social media, asking them to merely unfollow him if they aren’t too keen on him after their breakup.


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“You have NO idea about Mark and I’s relationship,” she replied to a negative Instagram post about their split. “How much fun it was. How happy we both were, how happy we both are. We decided it’s best for us not to be in a relationship… that’s all.”

“If you don’t wanna follow him like the millions of other people on instagram you don’t follow, that’s fine, but this post is immature,” she added. “He is not toxic. We’re teenagers. And our relationship just didn’t work out right now. …we’re better just being friends.”

It seems that Siwa is not having any negativity regarding her relationship status and isn’t happy with the hatred thrown toward her ex-boyfriend. While this is far from the first time she’s had to deal with haters, it’s refreshing to see the ever-cheerful, colorful icon put her foot down in such a pointed way.